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Dec 09

6 Powerful Reasons to Make Time for Personal Development

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How important is it to pursue personal development?

“For the best return on your money, pour your purse into your head.”
― Benjamin Franklin

Most of you know by now that I am an audiobook and podcast addict.  These are things that I now consider things I could not live without because I spend more than half of my day with earphones plugged in my ears from the time I leave home, while at work (when I don’t have meetings or people to talk to), and on my way home.  It’s become part of my system much like bathing or eating (except on weekends or when I’m with family).

I listen to personal development materials, business, and a bit of comedy and sports but lately, I’ve got the hang of listening to stories from TED Talks speeches and a podcast called Storycorp where you can listen to interviews conducted by regular folks on people from different walks of life that we don’t get to hear much of.  From conversations between a mother and her son who has Asperger’s syndrome to Hurricane Katrina survivors, there’s just so much variety to choose from (so many I haven’t finished all of them).

It appealed to me so much perhaps because of its unique concept.  It’s an entirely different way of learning because the information you absorb comes from the experiences of people that I haven’t had the chance to go through.  It makes me look at things from another person’s perspective and it’s totally eye-opening to say the least.

I never saw myself as someone who would be into this kind of stuff two years ago.  I am a movie and TV show addict and back then, my spare time were all consumed by movie marathons or binge watching.  I never realized the importance of personal development until I started my own personal development journey.  I would admit that I still watch a lot of movies and TV shows on weekends but I’ve made it a habit to allot time for personal development on weekdays either at night after work or in the morning before going to the office.

Why is it so important to make time for personal development?  Let me give you 6 good reasons:

 

1. Learning is a continuous process

I used to think that I had my life figured out when I was in high school.  I’ll finish college, get a job, get married and start a family, and live happily ever after.  That’s it!  Plain and simple.  I was probably so hung up on studying that I was looking forward to the day when I can finally say goodbye to books and homework.  Well, come on, who are we kidding?  Haven’t we all dreamed and looked forward for that day to come?

Obviously I was wrong.  Life doesn’t work that way.  You can’t just sit around and watch TV the whole day. You can’t just spend time on the internet reading about the latest gossip about your favorite celebrity or watching funny videos of cats and babies on YouTube.

At some point you have to do something that’s more meaningful and beneficial like reading a book or watching the Discovery channel or National geographic (not all stuff on TV is trash you know).  There must be something that’s been bugging your curiosity and that’s how it all starts.  Do some research on that topic or be good at something that you’ve wanted to do since you were young.

Learning doesn’t end when you step out of the campus.  It’s a continuous process because without it, we won’t experience growth.

 

2. Knowledge has never been easily accessible as it is today

I was a regular customer of our school library when I was in highschool,  Google wasn’t around yet so we didn’t have the luxury of doing a web search unlike today.  We did everything manual back then.  We actually read books. lots of them in fact, just to do research on a homework or project.

I look at my kids now and I feel a bit jealous with what they have now.  They didn’t have to go to a library anymore and spend long hours on research enough to miss dinner with the family.  All they need is a computer and they’re ready to go.  I just had to teach them how to do an effective web search and once they knew, they didn’t need my help anymore.  Once they got the information they needed, they just printed it out.

How convenient right?  During my time, I had to copy them manually either to by handwriting or via a typewriter (there was no backspace so if you make a mistake, you use a correction fluid.  Damn I miss that stuff!)

I guess what I’m saying here is that we have everything we need at our disposal.  We don’t have to do everything manually. This is the best time to learn because It’s all at the end of our fingertips and the click of a mouse so take advantage! Absorb as much knowledge as you can and get better at something.

 

3. What have you got to lose?

“Rich people have small TVs and big libraries, and poor people have small libraries and big TVs.”
― Zig Ziglar

Well thanks Zig!  Go ahead and rub it in!

We all know that time is of the essence and that time spent can never be brought back (If you have additional clichés about time please feel free to add) and from all the motivational speakers I’ve listened to whether it be Zig Ziglar, Jim Rohn, or Tony Robbins, everyone has voted for television as the biggest time wasters (If there is even such a word).

Unlike the television though, you can never go wrong if you spend time with personal development.  It’s always a win-win.  There is no such thing as wasted time when it comes to personal development and even if for the sake of argument you didn’t get to use what you learned, that stock of knowledge will always come in handy in the future.  Use your time wisely by investing on things that will be beneficial for you and your future instead of using it for things that makes you useless (yes, that includes being a couch potato).

 

4. Self-awareness

Personal development has made me discover several things about myself.  It has made me realize what I really want in life.  It made me discover my passion, my strengths and weaknesses.  It helped me get to know myself even more.

It has also raised my self-awareness to a point where I learned how to set personal goals.  I discovered my purpose and I learned to dream, and dream big for that matter.  I learned to accept responsibility for the mistakes I’ve made but most of all, I’ve learned how to become positive and live each day motivated and hopeful that the best is yet to come and that everything’s possible if you believe in yourself.

 

5. It will give your life direction

I’ve been a drifter for most of my life.  That is, I didn’t live life the way I wanted to.  I made life take me wherever it went.  I wasn’t in charge.  There’s one quote that struck me when it came to this subject and it goes like this:

Are you living life or are you simply experiencing it?

It’s short and simple but very powerful don’t you think?  Because most of us are drifters until we learn about personal development.  We let life take us where the wind blows the strongest.

Personal development helps us become intentional in everything we do.  We are in charge of how our lives will unfold and this comes into form through the decisions we make because it will dictate how we want to live life and where we want to go.

 

6. It’s the key to your dreams

Having said all the above, to wrap it up, personal development is the KEY to your dreams.  It’s the driving force that will help you meet your goals and make all your dreams come true.  It’s your ticket to success and the fuel to your engine called life. It will take you places and separate you from the mediocre.  It’s how you achieve greatness.

 

Over to You

Are you making time for your own personal development?  What are some of the habits you developed in pursuing personal development?

I would love to hear from you so feel free to leave a comment or feedback below.  Share your stories.  Let’s talk!

 

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Noel Rosos

About Noel Rosos

Noel is a husband, father, author, performance coach and self-proclaimed FAILUROLOGIST who helps business owners and struggling individuals convert their failures into opportunities through inspiring blog posts, life-changing books and exceptional one-on-one coaching sessions

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  1. Annalize

    Noel, I so love the quotes you used! And I agree, life is too precious and short to waste it. Personal Development has changed my life around completely, it’s a lifechanger!

    1. Noel Rosos
      Noel Rosos

      Absolutely Annalize! It’s amazing how personal development can turn someone’s life around just like that. We’re lucky we’ve benefited from it already. Let’s go and help other people out so they can experience the same magic we did.

      Cheers!

  2. HemaUnnoop

    Hello Noel,

    I just came across your post via Facebook and quickly jumped in to read your post.
    What a great motivating post!
    Personal development is one of my most favourite areas to work on, talk and write about.

    We have something in common. I’m a podcast and audiobook addict too. I will get my hands on anything that can benefit my self development as I know the value of working on oneself.

    As Jim Rohn says,
    “If you work hard on your job you make a living but if you work hard on yourself you can make a fortune”. So I chose the latter.

    I am working on becoming valuable first of all to myself and to those around me.

    All you points are apt but #1 is something I can relate too. I never had the intention of working on myself. I also thought life is all about becoming an adult, getting married etc…..I was feeling empty. Something was missing.

    My self development journey began in 2008 and I never looked. I’m still improving myself but I’m better than I used to be. Now life’s much more exciting and I look forward to every single day with enthusiasm :)

    The top most habit I have developed to pursue personal development is being grateful. I notice the more I am grateful for what I have and who I am, the more I seem to attract favourable situations.

    I’m so glad you wrote about this topic and gave me an opportunity to reflect. Thank you so much. Love your work. I’m off to share this wonderful post.

    Wish you a wonderful day :)

    1. Noel Rosos
      Noel Rosos

      Thanks Hema! We are so much alike! Reading your comment makes me feel like I was reading my own comments. Personal development has really helped me a lot which is why I am persuasively sharing everything I learned through my blog because I want other people to experience what I did. I am not the richest person out there but I am at a point in my life when I can really say that I have found true happiness because I am grateful and always excited everyday just like you.

      Appreciate you sharing my post to your friends and readers. Let’s hope our message will be heard and people can benefit from them. Cheers!

  3. Pamina Mullins

    Well done Noel for being so honest – again – and for walking the Life’s how you live it talk!

    It’s so simple really isn’t it – what you put in you get out – mentally, physically and emotionally. Simple as that.

    1. Noel Rosos
      Noel Rosos

      Thanks Pamina as always! It really is simple but sometimes, we have to experience something really tough, a failure so big that would open our eyes to the benefits that personal development could bring. I wouldn’t have discovered the magic of personal development have I not experienced a big failure because it made me realize a lot of things.

  4. Pamina Mullins

    You’re quite right Noel. Hindsight is always so clear. Like you, and just about everyone else, I only started to “get” the importance of this when I was forced to re-evaluate my life and the way I was living it :-)

  5. Sheena Yap Chan

    gotta grow daily if you want your mindset to expand

    1. Noel Rosos
      Noel Rosos

      Absolutely Sheena!

  6. Carol Makowski

    Yes, Noel, I believe the vast majority of people let life live them. Unfortunately, the important things in life are not taught in school and usually by parents because they don’t know either. Instead of learning dates and wars, it would be considerably better to learn how we can create our lives and continue educating ourselves beyond school. Interesting post. Thanks.

    1. Noel Rosos
      Noel Rosos

      I’ve never entertained this idea until I started my personal development journey. I realized that not everything is learned in school and that there’s so much more to learn outside of it.

  7. Alex

    I LOVEEE Personal Development Noel… for exactly all the reasons you’ve shared here. Because of it, I was able to do a complete 180 degrees and finally get back on track with my life.

    Thanks for sharing this with others!

    1. Noel Rosos
      Noel Rosos

      Glad to know that Alex! Always happy to find a similar “personal development freak” like me. Thanks!

  8. Stephanie D'Laroy

    Great message. You never stop learning if you want to grow. Knowledge is power and with the right mindset anything is possible.

    1. Noel Rosos
      Noel Rosos

      Absolutely Stephanie! Sometimes people underestimate how powerful knowledge is and how it can turn our lives around.

  9. Peter

    Noel, I think I’m addicted to learning. My brain just wants to soak up information. I’m currently learning about attraction marketing and creating leads etc. Very exciting times. happy new year!

    1. Noel Rosos
      Noel Rosos

      Love that Peter! Keep it up. It’s all worth it!

  10. Pamina Mullins

    Well said Carol – and you are so right with your opening statement – our culture sadly promotes letting life live us, rather that the other way around! But it’s never too late to get it right :-)

  11. Leonie Henskie

    Hi Noel
    Thank you. I too used to watch a lot of television. Still do, but I am also working on myself, and already have found I can cope when stuff happens now and keep positive no matter what has happened to me. The only way in life is to expand the mind so it is prepared for whatever life throws you.

    1. Noel Rosos
      Noel Rosos

      Absolutely agree Leonie! It is up to us if we want to grow and its starts with having the right mindset

  12. Sharon Whyte

    Yes personal development is so key for growth. I am a big user of my ipod shuffle and listening always to anything inspiring from my company and other things as well. Changed my whole way of thinking in life, couldn’t imagine a dose of Personal development every day. So necessary.
    Thanks for your post Noel!
    Cheers, Sharon

    1. Noel Rosos
      Noel Rosos

      Thanks Sharon! Sometimes change should come from within ourselves and the best way to keep ourselves motivated is by developing a habit of engaging in personal development and it doesn’t really matter if it’s books or audio. 30 minutes a day is all you need to get you in the right mindset.

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